A month of mindfulness - May 2020

Originally posted on my Facebook page, easily find all the information here. 



Did you know being more mindful can be helpful with anxiety, depression, burn out, overwhelm, PTSD, stress, moodiness... It can help cultivate resilience and feelings of happiness and gratitude.

Lets restart 2020 with a month where we wipe the slate clean, move forward with clarity and awareness, with tools to support our mental and emotional health, so we can get on with life - despite any obstacles that are thrown our way.

We're in this together!

I hope you'll join me here as often as you want or need to during the month of May and beyond. 

Join me for a month of mindfulness right here (originally on my Facebook page).


Mindfulness is

"the practice of maintaining a nonjudgmental state of heightened or complete awareness of one's thoughts, emotions, or experiences on a moment-to-moment basis"

Merriam Webster definition

Day 1 - Meditation by Numbers

Good morning & welcome to day 1 of Mindful May 🌞

Today: an easy meditation technique called "meditation by numbers" 🙏

I found this technique in a book called The Quiet by Paul Wilson (I highly recommend the audio version) - it was available at the GC library last I saw 📖

Day 2 - Daily Gratitude

Day 2 of Mindful May 👍

Today: daily gratitude

I challenge you to find 3 things each day that you're grateful for.

The more specific you are, the more you feel that gratitude and the more you ultimately feel grateful for.

That's it. Easy peasy. 

Day 3 - The Power of Intention

Day 3 of Mindful May 💫

Today: the power of intention

Something to think about and feel into... what if you decided wholeheartedly and with your entire being, to go for something you truly desired? How would your life be different?

We also do an activity to set a few intentions together.

I hope you get 100% benefit from this ☺

Day 4 - Energy Clearing & 'Downloads'

Day 4 of Mindful May - may the force be with you

Today: the force + intention = energy clearing & downloads

In this session I use an energy healing technique to help clear thought patterns that keep us stuck and download the way we want to feel.

All with ease and grace for our highest and best.

Just say yes to recieve.

Make note of any thoughts during this - tomorrow I will teach you how to do your own clearings and downloads 🙏

Day 5 - DIY Energy Clearings

Day 5 of Mindful May 🍂

Today: DIY energy clearings

In this session I explain how to use a simple light bubble technique to release thoughts and emotions that are not serving - using visualisation and intention.

I hope this is helpful

Day 6 - Suffering & Meaning

Mindful May Day 6

If suffering is unavoidable, is it possible to find some meaning for it?

I'm currently reading A Man's Search For Meaning by Viktor Frankl.

It is about his inner experience of surviving the holocaust in concentration camps and drawing on his knowledge as a psychiatrist.


An interesting and inspiring read. The suffering he went through and his ability to find meaning in such dire circumstances, got me thinking about new perspectives and ways this could be applied in everyday life.

What kinds of meaning might suffering have?

Opportunity to learn and grow mentally and spiritually, to be the hero, to find meaning in your life, to find your values, to discover what's really important, to find a new skill/talent/strength/courage you weren't aware of before, to make changes in your life... what else?

Day 7 - This Too Shall Pass

Mindful May Day 7

This too shall pass ⏳

When it feels like the clouds are rolling in this simple phrase can bring some relief...

Nothing lasts forever, even our tough times.

Do you remember what you were worried or stressed about 6 months ago? 2 years ago? 5 years ago?

Sometimes it seems like our troubles last a long time because they use a lot of our mental and emotional energy.

Can you imagine life past your current stress, where you've come out the other side calmer, stronger and wiser?

Ask your future self for some advice - the answer might surprise you 😉

Day 8 - Real Talk

Mindful May Day 8

Real Talk

How are we?

Today I had planned to do another video but not feeling it... my whole philosophy is about helping you find your own truth. While I can get passionate about what I'm saying at times, if I was to do a video right now it could come across as an unhelpful opinionated rant... which is the last thing I want.

I acknowledge this and I will find another way to channel this energy using mindful tools and exercise.

I want to leave you with some of my thoughts today - even if they seem random:

  • There's a lot of information and misinformation going on at the moment... my advice would be to question all of it no matter who it is... including me.

  • Get quiet and ask yourself what feels right for you. Never underestimate what you already know - even if you don't know how you know it.

  • If something doesn't look, feel or sound right... it probably isn't.

You matter.

Your opinion matters.

You vote with your wallet.

There's always another option/choice.

We are stronger together.

Day 9 - Know Yourself Be Yourself

Mindful May Day 9

Know Yourself
Be Yourself

Easier said than done - right?

In order to know ourselves we sometimes need to have a hard look at

ourselves in the mirror. I would add the best mirror is actually nature.

"Human beings, however, seem to continuously work against their true

nature, creating values and laws that have little to do with our

innate condition.


We inherently feel the discrepancy.

We feel that something is wrong.


Hence, we live in a state of disturbance, scattered rather than knowing

where to go, insecure and confused.


Eventually we decide that to feel satisfied with our lives, we must be different.


We develop unrealistic expectations.

When people have unrealistic expectations, a vicious cycle controls their lives."
(From Laws of the Jungle by Yossi Ghinsberg)

This vicious cycle can include thoughts like "something must be wrong with me", then searching outside of ourselves for answers that tell us to buy this or that, to blindly follow people who seem to have all the answers... yet under the surface we still feel empty and unsatisfied... we go through feelings of blame, guilt, fear, confusion, desperation and back to our original thought "something must be wrong with me".

We all do this...

It's time to really look at this for what it is.

What we've been told and our parents and grandparents before us have all been taught what society expects of us... maybe it's time to decide what we expect of society... but to do this, we first need to get quiet and ask ourselves really what truly matters, ask ourselves what we are willing to work toward for our highest good.

Start here and consider...
We don't need those things we've been told we need as women to feel worthy... To look younger than we are, to look slimmer or wealthier than we are...
To be attractive...
To be loved, have love and give love.

If you could see yourself through the eyes of those who love you, you'd know those things don't matter.

☝️ take what you need and leave the rest... there's a few messages in this post today.

Start questioning everything and asking why... then ask yourself if you believe the answer.

This is one way if the many ways to know yourself.

Day 10 - Take a Break & Happy Mother's Day

Mindful May Day 10

Take a break

Yesterday was Mother's Day and our 5th wedding anniversary weekend so I decided to take the day off 😊

To all the mothers past, present and future - you're doing a magnificent job. It is not always an easy job but it is extremely important!


You are worth your weight in gold 💖

Day 11 - Benefits of Meditation

Mindful May Day 11

The benefits of meditation

These are some benefits that most of the research papers agree upon.

  • One paper found that only 4 sessions of meditation over 4 days improved fatigue, attention, stress and cognitive (thinking) abilities.

  • Another paper found improvements in back pain and quality of life when combining meditation with pain medication.


It's amazing how such a simple practice can deliver these results.

For a simple meditation technique - go back to the video on Day 1 of Mindful May.

Day 12 - Centre Widen Listen

Mindful May Day 12

Centre - widen - listen 🙏

A technique to get you in the zone before meditation and to bring some beneficial feelings of calm to everyday life.


This is from the book "The Quiet" by Paul Wilson, that I've adapted.

I also introduce you to "the underlying quiet"



Day 13 - Reality vs Imagination

Mindful May Day 13

Reality vs Imagination

Did you know that the mind cannot tell the difference between real and imagined?

This is why we have the same stress response to things we think about as we do to a real life threat.

The cool thing is, this also works in the opposite and more positive way too.

This is why visualising and imaging what we want can have a calming effect... our body is actually responding to these thoughts as if they're real and therefore releasing feel-good molecules to create a physiological change.

Need a hug? Imagine it in as much detail as possible. Imagine the warmth, the sensations, the smell of that persons clothes or perfume... use as many senses as possible.

Will it release oxytocin, the love/bonding hormone? Maybe.

Will it help you feel better and closer to that person? I think so.

Only way to know is to give it a go for yourself!

Day 14 - Human Emotional Needs

Mindful May Day 14

Human Emotional Needs

We all know about our physical needs for clean air, food and

water. But we also have real inbuilt emotional needs.

"When our needs are not well met, we struggle with emotional

difficulties and can suffer mental and physical illness"



"if our needs are being met well and in balance, we will be

thriving and in good emotional health: we cannot be mentally

Quoted from the Human Givens website (www.humangivens.com)


The focus is on health vs dis-ease

These needs are:

  • Security - feeling safe in your environment

  • Attention - being able to give and receive

  • Autonomy - making your own choices

  • Community - feeling part of a wider community

  • Intimacy - feeling emotionally loved/accepted unconditionally by at least one other person

  • Privacy - time and space to reflect

  • Status - knowing where you fit within social groups and community

  • Achievement - a sense of accomplishment

  • Purpose - meaning in your life and growing your comfort zone by stepping outside of it occasionally


I find this stuff fascinating so I hope you get something from it as well!


Can you get creative about meeting some of these needs during the social restrictions?

PS. Here's a good article from the Human Givens website that might be helpful: 


Day 15 - Laughter

Mindful May Day 15

Laughter brings us into the moment

It's a form of mindfulness

There's lots of benefits too, including

stress reduction,

immune strengthening,

pain reducing,

mood improving etc.

On that note, I think I'll go watch some Carl Barron and have a laugh.

Have a great weekend!

Day 16 - Loving Kindness Meditation

Mindful May Day 16

Loving kindness meditation 💕

This is one version of this meditation.

Please try to ignore the child noises coming from the next room... he's supposed to be sleeping 🙉

It's not perfect but you get the general idea of how to do this.

I feel super warm in my heart after just making this video even.

Give it a go and let me know your thoughts 💖

Day 17 - Stop and Smell the Flowers

Mindful May Day 17

Stop and smell the flowers

Take time to appreciate the little things in the moment.

Use your senses:

Nature offers lots of opportunities... at the beach see the water glistening, hear the waves crashing, touch the sand and feel it shifting under your feet, smell (and taste) the salt in the air... how do you feel during a beach visit?

This process is all part of being mindful and present.

Do you appreciate the experience more by exploring your senses?

Day 18 - You're Not Your Stuff

Mindful May Day 18

You're not your stuff

Physically, mentally and emotionally

I left my home in New Zealand in 2007 with just a suitcase.

I sold my car, my clothes, my stuff. I'd always wanted to know who I'd be if I stripped everything back to bare basics.


Was I the same person without my friends and family?

Was I being authentically me in their presence or was I acting from expectations?

It was a hard thing to do but I was being driven by an unseen force that would lead me down the rabbit hole to answer the question "who am I?"


The short answer: I am not my stuff

What are your thoughts?

Day 19 - Drop Excess Baggage Meditation

Mindful May Day 19

Drop excess baggage meditation 🙏

This is your stuff...

the stuff that no longer serves you and is holding you back.

It's time to let it go and open space for the real you to step forward.

The part of you that is intuitive, confident and wise.

That only wants what's best for you.


The part of you that's hidden under all your stuff.

If this resonates, read on for the meditation:

You can be seated or lying down.
Close your eyes.
Take a few breaths into your belly.

Imagine, sense or feel yourself in a beautiful forest.


Take a few moments to experience this place... the smell, the sound of birds, the temperature of air on your skin, the light finding it's way through the canopy of trees... however you want your forest to look and feel.

Now become aware that you're carrying a bag (or a few). Notice where you're carrying it on your body and that it is quite safe, but heavy. Just notice that sensation of weight.

This bag(s) represents everything you're holding onto that is not in your best interests.
You may be aware of what these things are, or you might not... they're both valid.

Like a heavy bowling ball, you can simply let it all go. Feel your bag drop to the ground.

You might hear it clatter or thump.

Know that you will not let go of anything you're not ready to, and the space created allows the true lightness of you to fill that space.

Feel, see, sense (or just know) your bag is welcomed by the forest. The heavy energy is transformed into lifeforce used by the trees to grow.

Feel how light you are now without that bag, and how connected to nature after sharing that energy with the forest.

Allow yourself to bask in this lightness and beautiful forest energy for a moment. Feel yourself expanding into your true self.

When you're ready, take a deep breath and open your eyes.

If you had unexpected messages or images pop up, you might like write them down or reflect on them.


That's it. I hope you like this one. Let me know how you go and if you'd like me to record this one on video. 😊

Day 20 - Internal Rules for Living

Mindful May Day 20

Internal rules for living

On our mindfulness journey we're bound to come across weird and wonderful internal rules we've made for ourselves.

These were made at some stage in life to keep us safe and secure within society, our families, our friendships, our environment.

The good thing is, if these are no longer serving us, we can change these with awareness.

I came across a new one yesterday while reminiscing about an embarrassing moment in primary school...

I innocently told the teacher something I thought would be helpful, but it went horribly wrong and it got someone else in trouble. I felt so terrible and blamed myself for the whole thing... until yesterday when I viewed the situation from an adult perspective and could see that I was not responsible for the actions of others.

Who knows how many rules I made for myself from this situation with my child mind...

one comes to mind "don't speak up because someone will get hurt"

When we can view these rules for what they are and forgive ourselves for making them, we can decide they're no longer needed and flip them.

Have you experienced this before?

Day 21 - Take a Breather

Mindful May Day 21

Take a breather today

Mindfulness can look however you want!

March to your own drum
There are no rules
Take a break from time to time
Go at your own pace

You get the idea... don't ever feel guilty for not following a practice

to the letter.

Mindfulness is simply being aware and making choices that are right

for you. If you're connected to your inner wisdom you really can't go


On another note, I'm looking ahead to June and would love your help deciding on the theme...
Burn out
Gut health

Any ideas?
What do you think would be most helpful and relevant right now?

Let me know via my contact form here 

Day 22 - Emotions of Others

Mindful May Day 22

Emotions of others

A lot of us are empathic

We care and therefore we feel someone elses pain (and calmness, excitement etc).

So how do you know the emotions you're feeling right now are yours?

The first step is awareness - that you could be carrying stuff that's not yours and has nothing to do with you.

Is it easier to let it go knowing that?

Let me ask you this - do you feel strange in public places or with certain people? Do you feel drained afterward?

If you answered yes, it is very likely that you are absorbing emotions of others.

Rescue remedy is helpful
So is awareness, getting still and searching for what is truly yours... the answer might surprise you

Day 23 - Intuition

Mindful May Day 23


"Practice listening to your intuition, your inner voice;

ask questions;
be curious;
see what you see;
hear what you hear;
and then act upon what you know to be true.

These intuitive powers were given to your soul at birth."
Quoted from the book: Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype


After a while, you'll trust it and it won't let you down.


Start with this... what does truth feel like? How about untruth?

Day 24 - The Collective

Mindful May Day 24

The Collective

I've been warming up to this one.

The whole world is having a collective experience.

Is it far-fetched to suggest that those of us who are empathic are being influenced by the common collective thoughts and emotions?

This is the collective consciousness.

If we can be affected by the fear and worry of the world, then couldn't the opposite also be true?

Could those of us who are not caught in the pain, radiate out feelings of peace and hope for those who need it?

At the very least, can we use the quiet we create during meditation to be one less person adding to the collective fear and actually cultivating more peace and gratitude for all?

Something to consider...

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